Hey you guys!
Finally found a good time to write. Let's talk about relationship, love and the other questions that sometimes we didn't realize or maybe we did but we just choose to ignore it. A friend of mine once said that there's a definite difference between the times when you like someone or when you care for someone and when you love someone. So here we go.
Bye!
Finally found a good time to write. Let's talk about relationship, love and the other questions that sometimes we didn't realize or maybe we did but we just choose to ignore it. A friend of mine once said that there's a definite difference between the times when you like someone or when you care for someone and when you love someone. So here we go.
Liking means that you want to have that person.
Caring means that you want to make that person happy.
Loving means that you are ready to do anything for that person.
Here's the different: when you're feeling sad and down. Someone who likes you might say "don't you feel sad". Someone who cares for you might not be able to say anything but cry with you. And someone who loves you will wait and let you cry your eyes out then says "let's solve this together". Another e.g when you're with someone who likes you, they might say "can i kiss you?". But someone who cares for you will say "let me hold you". And then when you're with someone who loves you, they won't say anything but hold your hands tightly.
When you like someone then at some point they hurt you, you might feel angry and won't talk to that person ever again. But if you care for someone, you will cry. However, if you love someone and they hurt you, you will smile. Even though it hurts, you just realize that "they just don't know what they are doing to you".
Like is just a part of being selfish and about willing to do something once you feel enjoy doing it.So I couldn't help but wonder. If you're in a relationship, the questions are:
Care is about giving and receiving. It's a part of an act because you want to be there for them.
And love is about "self-sacrifice" while doing things that won't hurt them in any ways no matter how we feel about it.
- Which phase are you now?
- Which phase is better than the others?
- If you feel like you're in a certain phase, are you in for the right reasons?
- Then if you are, how do you know if it's worth your time?
- Or if you feel like it's a real thing. Are you in the right phase for the right person?
Bye!
